First and foremost, I want to extend our deepest condolences to all of the families of victims in the most recent school shooting in Texas and all of the families who have lost loved ones in tragedy. We simply cannot imagine losing a child in any scenario and are praying for healing and understanding during this difficult time. We hope this post offers some hope and ignites action and change.
[ReviewDisclaimer]
This post wasn’t supposed to be published until August 2018. Back in April, I went to a training and got some great tips that I was planning to include in some “back to school” posts after the summer. I thought it could wait – but clearly it can’t.
Last week’s school shooting is a sobering reminder that our schools are NOT prepared and they do NOT have an effective method for keeping our children safe.
Disclaimer: I am not a professional. I’m just a parent who happens to work in a school and attended an initial training on ALICE (Alert, Lock down, Inform, Counter, Evacuate) hosted by our insurance company. We haven’t even taken the full course yet, but a brief introduction was enough for me. The biggest takeaway? Our schools (public & private) are doing it ALL wrong.
Second disclaimer: This is in no way political. Let’s get past the mental health issue, gun issue, background checks, etc. Let’s assume someone has a gun and they have gained entry to the school. What now?
If you ask anyone that goes to school or works in a school what their plan is for an active shooter situation, 9/10 will tell you they announce a code name, lock down the school, and wait for the police to come. Sounds like a decent plan, right?
NOPE.
Here’s why the current plan sucks:
Our schools are vulnerable because our plan sucks and the people who are committing these crimes (most of the time) are students within the school who know exactly what the plan is. They take advantage of it and it’s going to keep working until we make some changes. I hate writing this but it needs to be said.
Our schools don’t need to invest in guns for teachers or big expensive equipment or less entrances/exits. We need to get real and implement ALICE training in all of our schools. I literally put my school’s active shooter plan in the shredder immediately after this meeting. It’s pointless and it’s not going to work.
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Lisa Wingerter @ https://meandmymomfriends.com | 21st May 18
Glad to see I am not the only parent concerned about this and that thinks lock downs are dumb and dangerous. I was in high school right after Columbine happened and I remember the drill. Close the door, shut off the light, and be quiet. Like that is going to fool anyone or stop anyone. With as rampant as these incidents have become, there has to be a better way.
Shelley | 21st May 18
Totally agree! In this class, they played an actual 911 recording of a teacher in the library during Columbine. They knew exactly where the shooter was, yet they were following school protocol and “staying down” in the library and the shooter eventually entered. There were people who were shot in the library and did’t have to be. It’s common sense but our schools aren’t doing it or training their personnel AT ALL.
Melissa Sanchez | 21st May 18
This post comes at such a difficult time. I am so heartbroken at all of these school shootings. Our young kids are getting murdered where they should feel safe; its just heartbreaking. I have to agree, there are changes needed, these protocols are not working at all.
Shelley | 21st May 18
It’s so sad and a tough topic to talk about. If we just step back from the big picture and take a look at tackling the actions, we may stop loss of life while we figure out how to fix it long term.
Susie Whittenberger | 21st May 18
There was an actual police officer at MSD during the shooting at Parkland, Fl. That still wasn’t enough. Thanks for an actual post.
Shelley | 21st May 18
Yep, unfortunately it’s just not enough. The real first responders are the people that are actually in the situation and they need to be trained on what to do.
Chantal | 21st May 18
Thank you for writing about this. As a mom of two school age children’s driving them to school everyday makes me nervous.
Shelley | 21st May 18
I totally understand. It’s hard for me to do sometimes too but I have to remember I can’t live in fear. It’s a sad time we live in but we’ve got to deal with the reality. Thanks for reading.