Fall is here! Make way for the pumpkins, lattes, and pumpkin lattes. It’s also a common wedding season… which is mostly exciting. But what about those couples getting married that already have everything? Wedding gift ideas shouldn’t be stressful.
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We’ve found the gifts we actually need but didn’t know we needed! Having a registry as a guide is cool and all but it can be a total drag! By the time you get to the store they chose, print the registry and find something at your price point, you either can’t find the exact location of that one item in the huge store OR it’s out of stock.
Unless, of course, they’re registered with Amazon where you don’t have to step foot in a store!
If you are attending a wedding, housewarming party, or simply in the gift-giving mood, here are a few ideas to make the event a special occasion, regardless of how well-stocked the couple already seems to be.
Cayla
I’m a sucker for sentimental gifts. I love gifts that require a little extra thought and creativity- maybe even a little DIY project. Some of my favorite gifts that I have given or received have been those that have been sentimental, and made me shed a couple happy tears.
Ideas in this area are:
Jenny
“Experience” Wedding Gift Ideas
I vividly remember going out to dinner with Drew a few weeks after our wedding and having a lady stop at our table and say, “I am going to bet that you two are newlyweds.” We replied that we we were just married a few weeks ago. She replied, “I could tell by the way you two were looking at each other!” It was so sweet! Even though we had already been together for 6 years, things change. You experience a “honeymoon” phase after the wedding where you are on cloud 9 and just excited to be husband and wife!
On the opposite end, the most common things couples argue about are “What do you want to eat?” and “What should we do today?” Am I right!? By giving the gift of an experience, you can take care of this for them!
A gift card to a spa, a winery, a nice restaurant helps them enjoy an experience together as a couple and publicly celebrate this new phase of life! Don’t feel obligated to cover the entire expense of the outing, your gift simply enhances the experience. Your gift allows them to now just get a massage, but a couples massage AND a bottle of bubbles!
Kaitlin
Ok, some people may think cash is a cop-out… or even tacky. But let me tell you what; after spending God knows what on my own wedding, I would have cried tears of joy for a Benjamin. Or a Lincoln. Whatevs.
Let me tell you more about why this is a great idea:
Karey
Brad and I recently went to Sonoma, CA (also known as heaven on earth), and we signed up for a Wine Club. It was a rather bubbly-induced decision, but turned out to be the BEST. Now, four times a year, we receive two bottles of really nice wine at our doorstep!
Not only is it exciting, but it’s a nice memory of our special trip every time we get it in the mail. This unique wedding gift idea would be the same kind of message you could send to that couple, long after the wedding bells have quit ringing. And it’s delicious!
I actually drink the nice wine and don’t feel guilty for “wasting a good bottle on myself,” because I know I have another shipment on the way.
My favorite is Domaine Carneros, because it was the most glorious champagne-sipping experience I’ve ever had. Plus, it was a perfect time to whip out those fancy crystal champagne glasses from our wedding!
They also send some delicious Pinot Noir that I love pouring in my huge wine glasses; I appreciate the variety!
The only caveat about this gift is that someone the age of 21 needs to be able to legally sign for the package. Sometimes, the shipment can be sent back for a fee. It’s annoying. **Just recommend they register for UPS My Choice for e-mail updates, tracking numbers, and preferences. It solves lots of problems.**
Shelley-
Practical Wedding Gift Ideas
There’s nothing like coming home to steam cleaned floors, perfectly clean toilets, and crystal clear mirrors and shower tile. This especially is a great gift for when the couple returns home from the honeymoon. The reality of marriage will hit them in the face if they return from a magical trip to the hustle and bustle and mess they left behind before the wedding.
Hiring a cleaning crew for your favorite family member, new couple, new parents is a PERFECT gift! What better way to show someone you love them by freeing up that cleaning time to go on a date or spend quality time together?! Groupon in their area is a great place to start!
Trisha
Attending a wedding is such special event in a friend or family members life. Giving a gift is something you can offer them to help them remember their “why”. We love weddings and finding extra special gifts that will help our friends create fun memories with their new spouse.
What was your FAVORITE gift you received from your wedding?
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Lia | 6th Sep 18
Great ideas! I always struggle with a good gift!
Kaitlin | 8th Sep 18
Thanks, Lia! It’s tough! And it definitely gets harder when the couple has been together a while, or already lives together, and has a lot of what they need. 🙂
Amber Stanfield | 6th Sep 18
You can never go wrong with money. My husband and I would have never been able to go on our honeymoon if it hadn’t have been for our wedding money.
Kaitlin | 8th Sep 18
Amber, agreed! It was such a relief having some extra funds to support our honeymoon. One less thing to worry about!
Jennifer | 7th Sep 18
These are awesome gift ideas! I love to give unique gifts that make more of an impact than a traditional gift. Love the idea of paying for the cost of an excursion.
Kaitlin | 8th Sep 18
Thanks, Jennifer! I agree. I can remember the special gifts I got much more than some of the silly things I registered for. Thanks for reading!
Madison at The Weaver Fam | 8th Sep 18
These are great ideas! I totally agree with you on the cash gift. When my husband and I got married we already had everything we needed and didn’t need the normal “registry” stuff, so we asked for donations towards our honeymoon and it was perfect! It helped us out so much!
Kaitlin | 9th Sep 18
Madison – same! My husband and I had quite a few things, so it made all the difference in the world to have extra cash to indulge in our honeymoon. I absolutely loved it!
Cassie | 10th Sep 18
These are great ideas and I have lots of weddings coming up… thank for different gift ideas!
Kaitlin | 11th Sep 18
Cassie – ’tis the season! You’re welcome! I’m sure you’ll nail the gift-giving. 🙂
Bonnie | 12th Sep 18
There is a special anniversary sundial (a sun clock) you can find online that is designed to sit on the window sill indoors and make prism rainbows in the room when the sun shines. You can get a special gift certificate for one that will allow the couple to have it made for their new home after all the excitement is over, and it can be personalized with a date line for the occasion that the time shadow will follow on their anniversary day every year. They are handmade, personalized and very nice, and we give them for gifts to our special friends (especially if we have to travel for the wedding) because they are very unique and do something cool every year. Very appropriate!
Kaitlin | 14th Sep 18
Love that idea Bonnie!! Where do you get something like that?